The Spin Cycle of Life
/The Spin Cycle of Life
Passing the laundromat, I slow to smell the fragrance
of fabric softener and dryer sheets that infuse the warm, moist air
from the vent pipe protruding from the brick wall. My husband finds it sad:
“That’s the smell of people too poor to own a dryer,” he says.
But it makes me happy: To me, it’s the scent of women
who care enough about their families to shlep overstuffed cloth bags
to the laundromat, either slung over their shoulders or balanced on
a stroller or kid’s wagon, and who later expertly fold the dry clothes,
each item into its own perfect rectangle. You can see them
chatting amiably in Spanish at the long, deep Formica counter
behind the big plate-glass window, recently replaced
after an incident outside involving two men and one woman.
And it occurs to me while the machines rumble, that I have entered
the Spin Cycle of Life. No more for me the Soak, the Power Wash
or even the Rinse. My world now feels as if it’s in the throes of vertigo.
Round and round we go, staggering and nauseated, with wild ups and downs — more Tilt-a-Whirl than Merry-Go-Round — and I’m approaching that moment where the dizzying days I’ve had, understanding nothing but somehow
getting through them all, are about to jerk to a halt and things
(memory, skills, wit, friends, good health) will, by centrifugal force
or force of habit, continue to stay put for maybe
one moment more and then collapse all at once
and thump in a damp, bumpy clump and jumble of relief, regrets and —
with G-d’s grace — gratitude.